Is using frp on a home server for a small community server to a VPS reliable?

it very much is, just make sure that vps has a decent amount of bandwidth a month. like 4-8tb

ah ok

I ran it myself for a server with like 30~ concurrent players on modded mc. that thing EATS bandwidth

problem was that bandwidth is almost as expensive as renting servers, I think I will need to buy from a server hosting provider

absolutely

#service-providers are a good choice, but some dont allow for such things

I would suggest ovh/hetzner they give pretty big bandwidths

hetzner ^

frp doesn't sound as good to me now, I don't want to buy a server from too far away because that increases latency to use FRP, I will just rent a server from #service-providers

thanks for explaining 👍