Help with server

If you have 0 experience using Linux then it won't be easy. It is a decent place to start though, since you're interested. It is definitely more demanding than simply running a Minecraft server though.

You may be better off if you or one of your friends runs it off your own PCs, depending on what kind of hardware you have.

Adding mods is somewhat easy, but it can be problematic with larger packs. You have to make sure all the mods are server-side mods for that specific version of Forge/Fabric/Neoforge (whichever you're using).

Oracle does delete instances if they're not very active, which is another reason you may be better off running it off your own PCs.

well i got this when i tried to make a VM

Oracle has limited availability

The shape you want, which I believe is their only good free one, has no availability

is there anyhting i can do or just wait

Considering that there are people who automate/script their attempts to get one themselves, good luck

man

well i guess well use exaroton if we cant get a hold of one

got any other server suggestions?

anything but exaroton

horrible hardware

and price

Is this a good cpu for hosting?

depends on what you want to run on that

if your question is if its a "good" cpu, no

does that mean you won't be able to run some smaller servers on it? also no