how can i make my connection between one server and other much faster?

i dont think resources are a problem, i've got a really good plan and i've seen servers with lower plans than mine performing better

When you say connect between servers, is this through a proxy, transfer packets or what?

Can you send specs here and information about your servers please?

All this information and more would be helpful:
Versions, Important Plugins used, what you might have already tried, etc.

sure!

Proxy Server -> AMD Ryzen 7950X3D 8Gigs of ram
HUB -> 9950X 8gb of ram
SERVER1 --> 9950X 32gb of ram. I dont have a server 2 yet so im just willing to keep it as coming soon.

The proxy server has Viaversion/backwards/minimotd/cleanping/skinrestorer installed whereas
The hub server has Akropolis, FancyHolograms, FancyNpcs, Essentials, floodgate, Geyser-Spigot, PlaceholderAPI, SkinsRestorer, TAB, ViaBackwards, ViaVersion, WorldEdit, pl-hiderpro installed in it.

All server versions are in 1.21.4

Hub is using Purpur, Server 1 is using Leaf

as in /server (servername)

Are they all with the same provider?

If they are, are you aware if they're all on the same machine with said provider? (same public IP, but different ports typically indicate this)

Yep they are

They all have the same IP, the ports are the only thing that's different

The only thing I could think of is the equivalent something like inertia anticheat (I know it’s fabric/quilt)

are you able to provide a spark report for more details?

Yeah sure

here is the spaek report for the hub